Sunday, May 18, 2025

Sunday Selections

Once again I'm joining with Elephant's Child and River for Sunday Selections  with a variety of photos, hopefully, unused here.

Kosov at times hides my bottle of Scotch, never so that I can't find it. He more moves it. My revenge was to wrap his large and beloved Nutella jar like this.



I didn't see any children at Easter, so the money I saved on chocolate eggs went towards these for my tenants. 


Aww, the pain.


This is built from mini Lego style blocks. Sister bought it for them when she was recently in the city. It took them a while to assemble it and they added the external bits to it.


Phyllis bought his mother a card for Mother's Day.


In Victoria Street, Richmond under the Epping and Mernda lines railway bridge.



A nice mosaic at a building entrance.


Phyllis told me there is a new supermarket at Southbank. I investigated. No wonder the City Road tram stop has become so busy. There is one full sized supermarket in the city at the QV Building, and now a full sized one has opened at Southbank. This new one is spread over two floors of this new high rise tower, with a lift and travelator to change floors. 



Quite nicely done and it is called Melbourne Square. I did not climb the stairs.


I am not sure how long the new station at Parkdale has been open after the elevation of tracks but they seem to have done such a nice job. There is even a kiss and drop off short driveway under the concrete supports.


I just thought you may have wanted to read the plaque. C'mon, you need to look down. 


The main entrance. To one side are heaps of cafes and food places. I did partake. The locals did not want this overhead train and new station. They protested loudly and vehemently. But now, the small local area is no longer divided by a train track at ground level and the messy train crossing has gone. What's not to love. 


Seating and a public toilet in the distance. 


I have just returned from dinner, last night as I wrote before this is published Sunday morning. It was a bit of sad day. Brighton Antique Dealer who will turn 90 later this year has earlyish dementia. She told me the same story three times, and could not remember meeting the mother of my friend and former workmate who she met on a cruise, nor my workmate himself. 

Further, about three months ago a champion Aussie Rules football player suicided. This week his twin brother, also a former champion football player who was going to run half a marathon in a week or so to raise money for a suicide prevention cause, but now he too has suicided. They both knew of their demons within and as often is the case, their lives were good, without any obvious reason to not want to live any longer. They received appropriate medical care, but it was not enough.  It is just so sad. 

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  1. Those are tragic stories. It's hard for an outsider to grasp why suicide is better than trying to go on. But it's an end to great suffering.

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    1. Boud, I don't understand it. Living is better than the alternative until you are fatally unwell. But as I said, I don't understand it.

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  2. An interesting selection, but a sad conclusion.

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  3. Your chances of dying by suicide increase dramatically if someone you know takes that final solution.
    I am sorry to hear about Brighton Antique Dealer. That is an illness I fear.
    And I loved your other eclectic photos and stories.

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    1. EC, maybe more so if they are twins. Our Brother Friends were twins. One, after facing a second cancer treatment said no, and peacefully died soon after. His twin brother is happily living in Thailand. There aren't rules about it, hey.

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  4. When Troy suicide in February, I hoped it was his carefully thought out choice and he wasn't being forced by views from his own brain or by other people.
    But a twin suiciding is even worse. Adam may have had his twin in his brain, "calling" him to join up together as they always had before. What a nightmare for the family.

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    1. Oh Hels, don't we really feel for the family. I used to think it was a selfish thing to do, but I don't now. They want an end to their pain, but I am still on a learning curve.

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  5. That is so sad about the twins dying by suicide. The family must be in bits. I had a suicide in my family and it is heart breaking.

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    1. Hi Terra, it's been a while. I think every one is left thinking what more could they have done to support the person, but there is nothing. Thankfully I've not had to face that in my family and I hope never to.

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  6. So sad to hear about the twin also committing suicide. The temptation is to say it's something genetic, but I guess we'll never know.

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    1. Who knows Kirk? He must have seen the pain that his brother's death caused to the family, yet he inflicted even worse on his family. The mind is not functioning logically or right.

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  7. I heard about the twins suicides on the news and thought how sad it was one could not bear to be without the other. I love the tiny train and your hiding of the Nutella. The train bridge is excellent.

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    1. Thanks for distracting me from the suicides, River. It took a while, but I can now make Kosov laugh heartily and genuinely.

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  8. Thank you Andrew. There is so much here. I can't organize my thoughts to leave a coherent message, but I did enjoy visiting you as always. Aloha, what a shame about the twins

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    1. Cloudia, I was all over the place, and that is not a great thing for a blogger. Thank you.

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  9. The reflections off the city skyscraper are just stunning. The child statue in my opinion is wrong to be portrayed like that. The footballer demise was far too premature.

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    1. It wasn't a child, Roentare. I will see the building better soon to take it all in instead of focusing on a supermarket.

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  10. That's really sad, at the end, about the twin brothers suiciding not long apart. And about antique dealer getting dementia.

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    1. Strayer, as I am sure you know, life can be very sad at times.

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  11. It is sad about those two. Feel so sorry for the family/families.
    Like the new road there and the new supermarket sounds great.
    Lovely collection of photos, Andrew.

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    1. Thanks Margaret, and good wishes for you upcoming celebration.

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  12. A sad ending to your Sunday contributions. We can never get inside someone else's head and understand their suffering.
    The rest of your post shows lots of good things with a large new supermarket and I like the look of Melbourne Suare.

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    1. Fun60, there are people you may know who suffer so badly in life, but they don't contemplate suicide, yet these two successful brothers did. I can't pretend to understand. I am half watching an English tv crime show with cosy heating on, a glass of scotch nearby, Phyllis is nearby working on his new laptop after he reconstructed my roast meal, (I had to ask him to bring the mint sauce) and Kosov is at work to bring home the bacon. I had a nice lunch with a friend today. What more could one want from life?

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  13. I have never seen the word "suicide" used as a verb before but it seems to work. You mentioned Melbourne Square... but I thought that was your nickname Andrew!

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    1. YP, I can't see where I used suicide as a verb. I prefer the title 'boring old has been'.

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  14. Your family seems to have taken your tenants to their hearts.

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    1. JB, how my family see my tenants is a worry. A threat to their inheritance? A replacement for Ray? It matters not as they know I am in control of my life and I will do what I do.

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  15. Shimmering towers, and modern markets.

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    1. TP, that is how things now are, in very inner areas at least.

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  16. That's awful, those poor young men killing themselves.

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    1. It is PIxie. So awful for those who survived too.

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  17. Suicides are often hard to understand. We just can't know what it was like inside their heads, you know?

    The train crossing looks nice. Hopefully the neighborhood will get used to it. What is a "travelator"? What is a "bilby"? So many questions.

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    1. Steve, I think the crossing already has very high approval.
      I am surprised you don't know travelator. It's an angled moving footpath that can be alternative to an escalator, or horizontal such as at airports. A bilby is a small native mammal, once extremely endangered by introduced predators, especially cats. There was a large secure reserve built for them in Queensland I think, where they have been successfully breeding. One of chocolate shops donates an amount from the sale of its bilby chocolate to the the foundation.

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  18. One never knows how others are actually feeling. So sad, Andrew.

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    1. Pat, people around the second twin must have been hyper vigilant, but still it happened.

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  19. Dementia is so effing ugly. I'm now dealing with another friend who has it. It's a grieving time for me. Your pics are varied and wonderful Andrew and that suicide of another twin is appalling. I can't imagine their parents' sorrow.
    XO
    WWW

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    1. WWW, how dementia manifests itself can be so different too. Yesterday was almost like a day of public grieving.

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