Friday, April 5, 2024

Grand or great?

I read in the electric newspaper the term grand niece and that had me puzzled. From the person seeming to be reading directly from papers on ABC Radio, I heard the same. 

The story was about a grand niece of a former State Premier now seeking preselection as an electoral candidate. 

Great niece and grand niece are the same, as Google tells me. It can even be great grand niece. I think I prefer to have great nieces than grand nieces. The OED informs me using great niece and great nephew is twice as common as using grand.

I did not know about grand and great being the same. Did you? And if so, why didn't you tell me?  


29 comments:

  1. I assumed that the term 'grand' in that context was obsolete. As I think it should be...

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    1. EC, it seems it is not obsolete, just confusing to people like me.

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  2. Grandchildren and great nieces and nephews, and great grandchildren. As for first and second cousins, I never can remember those, but as I haven't got any that I know of, it doesn't really matter;-)

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    1. JB, that is how I think of it all. My brain can deal with cousins but second cousins has the start of a downward slope.

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  3. I have always used the term great niece and nephew. And mine are great indeed.

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    1. JayCee, I am pleased to know your greats are great. So are mine.

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  4. I actually never knew both terms. I stayed away from relatives as much as I can.

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    1. Roentare, wont' you need one to push your wheelchair in your old age?

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  5. I'm with JayCee. ~nods~ And it's amusing how my husband gets confused; I really messed up his mind when telling him our neighbor's child has an aunt younger than her. Mix in second and third cousins, the guy totally loses his $h!T. lol Ah, fun with significant others.

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    1. Same here Darla. I know having an aunt younger is possible but I really have to think about it. I don't much like thinking. Second and third cousins have to be slowly explained to me.

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  6. Stalker
    She could be a grand niece….as in riding in a horse and carriage!
    Or she could be a great niece as in baking cakes and cooking curriies!
    My partner and I are known as the grandmaws to my granddaughter rather than one of us being a step grandma


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    1. Stalker, yes that would be my definition of a a grand niece, or too big for her boots; too grand.
      Grandmaws is clever. Jo refers to Sister and Bone Doctor as her mothers.

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  7. I sometimes feel both great and grand ....

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    1. Bob, does feeling grand feel better than feeling great? I'm sure they are both very nice.

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  8. I would have thought it would be great! However, I found this:
    “Great” relationships

    *Great means three or more generations apart. Each “great” adds one more generation. A great-grandparent is three generations away because "great" adds one generation, and “grand” adds two generations. "Great" and "grand" work the same way with aunts, uncles, nieces, and nephews.*

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    1. Ok Margaret. That is really interesting, except people don't follow this.

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  9. I also did not know they were the same, but at least I know my grandchildren's children are Great Grandchildren to me.

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    1. River, of course yours are Great Grandchildren 😇

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  10. Grandniece gets a mention in the Cambridge & Oxford dictionaries, but I've never heard it commonly used. https://www.oed.com/dictionary/grand-niece_n?tl=truehttps://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/grand-niece

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    1. James, I've not heard it used either until I read it in The Age, and then the ABC Melbourne reporter clearly taking her words from The Age also saying grand niece. Did the term come from a press release or press conference? One despairs about the media and such minor matters makes me worry about media reporting of major matters. It was good to see your Kate M on 7.30 last night. She can walk, talk and chew gum.

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  11. I had no clue of this. I thought a grand niece was my niece's daughter. I thought that a great niece was my niece's grandaughter. You've really caused me to think far more deeply, far more early than I am accustomed to. Let it go without saying this is not a good thing.

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    1. Debby, in the back of my mind, and I saw nothing to indicate this, I thought maybe it is a US/UK thing, and after what you've written, perhaps it is. I've never known grand to be used with niece. I suppose what I would say after great niece, would be great great niece.

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  12. I use only British-Australian vocabulary that we used as far back as I can tell; American vocabulary should never have entered our language. So I will never EVER call a jumper a sweater; our petrol is not gas; and my great aunt was never a grand aunt.

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    1. Hels, do you think the grand/great is a British versus US English difference?

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  13. It would be a great niece for me although I don't have any. Grand is for grandparents me thinks, Andrew.

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    1. Pat, I agree but Debby's comment above is most interesting.

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  14. I use great, to describe nieces second over, but we also use the word grand, for say 'grandmother'. I wouldn't want to say 'greatmother'.

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