Tuesday, January 9, 2024

Queenscliff 3

It was Boxing Day, a public holiday and the day Ex Sis in Law normally hosts a Christmas family get together. I am not sure if it is a permanent arranged but this year she handed over to her daughter, Oldest Niece. A direct drive on a motorway would take about 30 minutes, but it could not be. We were on one side of Port Phillip and Oldest Niece is on the other. 

Sister picked us up just after 9 and we lined up for the 10 o'clock ferry from Queenscliff to Sorrento. We abandoned the car to buy coffee but were back in the car in good time to drive on. Light cars went on first and then SUVs. Sister was driving Bone Doctor's 'truck' a large proper 4 wheel drive. Sister was getting very impatient and just as impatiently drove once off the ferry, trying to 'push' the cars in front up to the speed limit in a futile effort. The ferry trip is around 40 minutes and the drive 30 plus minutes. The ferry is terribly expensive; car, adult, child and two seniors well over $200 return with Sister's local person discount but it avoids a drive of nearly three hours at best, and by ferry is quite a pleasant trip. 

We aren't terribly impressed that Oldest Niece asked for a contribution of $20 per person towards the cost of hosting the Christmas party. This may have come from her mother. I am not sure. It was a lovely afternoon with all the Christmas food you can imagine and absolutely crazy with with  eight children ranging from 18 months to 9 years old. Enjoy them while you can. They grow up so quickly. 

If I knew they were short of money or that it was more than they wanted to spend, I would quite happily given them a couple of hundred dollars towards the hosting the Christmas event. Asking for payment seems just plain tacky.

Jo had a working shift starting at 5pm, so we left quite early after gift giving to catch the 3pm ferry back. We didn't think we would make it and it was bit like the car flying over a closing lift bridge, but sister made it and we were on board at 2.58 for the 3.00 departure. 

Then Jo received a message that her work shift, involving holiday penalty rates, was cancelled. How can a workplace do this? Our day was arranged around getting her to work by 5pm. I was fuming at the injustice towards casual workers (distinct to part time workers) and the knock on effect to others. The gubbermint needs to do something.  

It was a lovely day but as Jo suggested, her social capital was exhausted and mien Gott, once back at our cottage, I felt drained of all social capital. R and I bought a takeaway pizza for dinner but did not eat much. Pizza never goes to waste. One slice came back to Melbourne in the esky (insulated chiller carry box with ice blocks).

It was a wonderful day really, full of family fun and nice food. We are fortunate.

Here comes our ferry to Sorrento, a smudge on the horizon. 


From the cafe where we drank coffee before departure. The seas looks rough but the ferry is purpose designed to deal with The Rip


The ferry terminal.


Here she comes.


Car loading was very quick. The staff really knew what they were doing. As far I could see, there was less than five vacant car spaces.


'We'll be back soon Queenscliff'. 


We passed the Spirit of Tasmania as we returned, the ferry to our island state Tasmania. Even though subsidised by our Federal Government as being part of national highway Route 1, it too is expensive.


38 comments:

  1. You had a lovely day out but it was a shame about the shift being cancelled - how mean and thoughtless. You could have relaxed more.

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    1. JB, and seen more gift opening, as if the kiddies need more stuffs. Relaxed, yes.

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  2. I am glad that it was a lovely day with lovely people and food despite the glitches. I agree with you about asking for contributions. Tacky. And Hiss and Spit at the exploitation of casual workers. The ferry isn't cheap is it, but I suspect I would always opt for it rather than a long drive.

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    1. Re the ferry EC, we were happy to pay the price, and for Sister to take us.

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  3. I haven't been on that ferry between Queens cliff and Sorrento for over 20 years. The terminal looks impressive. The clouds look great too. You had a good time.

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    1. Funny Roentare. The last time we took the ferry, perhaps twenty years ago there were a number of Indian born on the ferry and they all drove Nissans. I wondered why and a friend told me, they work at the Nissan factory in Dandenong.

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  4. Well, despite the downsides you did enjoy the day. That's what counts.

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  5. The way you describe your sister going on and off that ramp to the ferry just in the nick of time conjures of images of a Fast and Furious movie, though I'm sure it was nothing that breathtaking. Unless it was!

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    1. Safety rules and regs Kirk would not allow that but it did feel a bit like that.

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  6. Asking for money from guests is a bit insensitive, but asking everyone to bring a plate makes perfect sense. If a family cannot cook, then they can bring a few bottles of wine.

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    1. Hels, we often offered to supply the ham. Yes, a no no for you, and it is not cheap, but we did at times.

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  7. I'm with you and Hels. ~nods~ The ferry ride price shocked me but at least its (almost certainly) safer than a three hour drive besides being more scenic and relaxing. I'm glad your gathering, if exhausting, went well. Hugs to you and R.

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    1. Darla, I didn't think of it being safer, and you are right. It was. Thank you hon.

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  8. I like riding on ferry's. It been a while.
    I never heard of money at holiday dinner. Bring a side dish or something. When we had big family gathering, 80 plus people. We had rent a place. And than we put out donation can.

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  9. Genial viaje. Lindas fotos. Te mando un beso. Enamorada de las letras

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  10. That is expensive. I think the Seattle ferries, if you take a car along, are quite expensive too, but they're sure fun to take. Makes me want to go ride them again. I can picture you and R in the car flying up over a rise, landing roughly with a bounce then gunning it onto the ferry, screeching to a halt, in just the right spot, then exiting the car to get a coffee like you'd planned the last minute arrival just as it had happened and no big deal.

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    1. Seattle ferries? I must check them. As you describe felt like it a bit at the time but it really wasn't so dramatic. We just made it within one minute.

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  11. I really like that first photo with the ferry just a smudge on the horizon. I also think it seems a bit tacky to ask for money, but in days of yore people would ask that you contribute a plate of food, so I guess it's the same thing. Too bad about Jo's shift though, holiday penalty rates is quite a lot to lose.

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    1. River, for us it wasn't about the money. It could have been contribute a plate, maybe more effort. It was a sudden understanding for me about casual work. I guess in your last job you worked part time, quite different.

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  12. All the photos are lovely Andrew.
    Tad expensive however for the ferry but the cost to run it must be somewhat expensive also.
    Oh gosh, so disappointing for Jo having her shift cancelled and nothing to be done about it, when people cancel 'things' they don't realize how many people they put out but I guess they had their reasons.
    To be asked to pay $20.00, well that to me is a disgrace. You invite people over for a meal, celebration and expect them to help pay for it, not on for me. If I invite people over I don't ask them for money to help me/us pay for their meal...maybe I'm old fashioned!

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    1. Thanks Margaret. It is a nice ferry.
      I was surprised at Jo's shift being cancelled, with us having planned the day around her working.
      Well, Oldest Niece has a $70,000 car to pay for. I guess she is poor.

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    2. Remember when cars were a LOT cheaper and you could buy a really decent house for $70,000?

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  13. A great day marred by that cancelled shift as such late notice. Must have made Jo feel like an afterthought. Not good. There are other ways of spreading the cost. Guests often ask what to bring and are happy when the host is specific with a suggestion.

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    1. Marie, apparently a delivery truck had not arrived, the reason for her cancelled shift. We've done as you say in the past, a leg of ham and latterly R's lovely baked cauliflower in cheese sauce. No one can beat his.

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  14. I am fortunate to live here where ferries dot the entire island and I have a love for them that never has died. Starting when I was a toddler. Yuck, tacky indeed to ask for a contribution to a hosting. It's much like an old custom here when a family event is planned the host expects the invitees to provide all the food. Whoa Nelly.
    Your shots are lovely and family stuff is a great balm for the spirit. We had a gathering yesterday and it's always a good thing.
    XO
    WWW

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    1. WWW, we met a fellow tourist in South Africa who was the purser? for one of your local ferry companies. The usual custom here is to take something to such gatherings and for a special occasion, ask in advance what is needed. That's nice that you got together with family.

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  15. Is "Social Capital" a new alcopop drink for yuppies? I had to find Sorrento via Google Maps.

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    1. YP, it was such a long trip to Italy, but we made it. Jo isn't old enough to drink but she is very fond of mocktails.

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  16. It is kind of tacky to ask for a 'donation' to help out. If a party is going to be done like that, wouldn't it be better for the powers that be simply decide to have it an outside venue, catered or ask everyone to bring a dish to pass?

    In my family, though, it is just the way that it is done. 'Party at (name the relative's house), bring a dish to pass.' It's easy peasy, no one is over burdened. Asking for a donation sort of encourages people to look over the offerings and decide whether the host/ess is making a profit off the 'do'.

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    1. Debby, we've done both in the past but that was when Mother was in charge of the day. I know she won't make a profit. Her father would not have paid, nor her mother and her husband and I know her siblings didn't either. The host's husband had complained early in piece about hangers on, invited by his mother in law. They did attend but of course they paid.

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  17. That is a pricey ferry ride. We are looking at ferries across Lake Michigan next fall, is about the same price (it is like 3 hours in each direction.)

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    1. If that is with a car TP, it sounds reasonable. Michigan in fall should be gorgeous.

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  18. I'd take the ferry too and skip the long drive. It is good that family got all together for this holiday.
    Cold pizza is always good.

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    1. Pat, the ferry was so much easier but it sure isn't for poor people. I can't ever remember throwing left over pizza away.

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