Sunday, August 9, 2026

The Bellarine Pt 1

Sister said I could stay at her place, and they have a room and a nice double bed, but I like my own space, so I booked a flat for two nights at a reasonable price for a one bedroom flat the Friday and Saturday nights. Since then, I've taken a wee blog break, but I've read all of you wrote.

The occasion was to attend a party for Bone Doctor's 50th birthday, sensibly timed for 4pm to 9pm for seniors. The venue was the same boathouse where Jo's 18th birthday was held in July last year, when I had the company of Phyllis and Kosov.

I didn't do much upon my arrival on Friday afternoon, aside from walking the few minutes to the beach. The Rip is the narrow entrance to Port Phillip, and ships must have pilots to enter and depart.

 

I offered to take the trio out for dinner on the Friday night as a gift for Bone Doctor's birthday and Sister chose a rather nice Italian restaurant. Funnily, it was in a Victorian era building where Ray and I stayed when we attended Bone Doctor's 40th birthday. I understand the whole building has been renovated, and that's just as well as where we stayed was rather shabby.

Four people, the cost will be about $80, with my mind firmly back in the 1990s. A bottle of decent wine bumped up the price, as did Jo's cocktail and my Frangelico affogato. We ate well, with me having a serve of bruschetta and my main being mussels in a rich tomato sauce, with bread of course. $270 later... I just thought of all the money I've saved by not going out for dinner with Ray once a week. Whatever, it was a lovely meal and such a nice evening. 

We drove to a carpark to see the moon. It didn't disappoint.

I can't remember why, but Sister and Jo dropped me and Bone Doctor back at my flat, and we sampled Bone Doctor's Japanese whisky she'd brought along, which was nice enough, but we then drank some of my Scotch. We talked about everything and nothing, and as the English expression goes, we sorted out the world. She set off for home on foot.

Next morning we all met up for brunch in Point Lonsdale village, with me driving the short distance in my car. I had some rather nice fruit toast with Vegemite, much to the surprise of the foreign born lass when I ordered. She said Vegemite was ok, but she'd never heard of it on fruit toast. I can assure you, it works well, if you like Vegemite. This was the view from across the road from where we brunched.

We went our separate ways and I drove to St Leonards, where I stopped off to watch boats being launched from the boat ramp. It was a very good four boat ramp launching place, but sadly I did not see any boat ramp disasters to film and make me go viral. Some old dude with a heavy foreign accent in a motorised wheel chair engaged me in unwanted conversation. One must be kind to the elderly who want to chat. 

I clung to the coastal road as I passed through Indented Heads and stopped in Portarlington. There were so many nice houses along the way, mostly two storey to take advantage of sea views, with huge balconies. This was a slam on the brakes moment to get out and take this photo, I think at Indented Heads. 

I parked in Portarlington, happily right near a great mural. The old hotel looks wonderful.

I returned to my flat in the afternoon, with this lush and perhaps a little overgrown garden outside my door. The temperature was low, but with sunshine, it felt warmer.

 

I walked to the cemetery across the road. Real estate agents would call it 'sea views' from the top of the cemetery hill. I would call them 'sea glimpses'. The wrought iron gates are wonderful. The supporting pillars, rather plain. 

Cemeteries are always interesting, and this was not an exception. A nice rotunda is a great facility to hold celebrations of deaths.

 

An eighteen year old who died, maybe a lifesaver with the statue indicating a connection. 

 

This grave for a nineteen year old with an engraved motorcycle might indicate Gavin died in a motorcycle accident. 

One month old, and what a lovely site to remember her.

Ruben, one week old, with an eye catching grave.

This 1800s grave was really sad. Three children died at a young age and are interred with their mother, then later with their father. Plagues or wars?

A war memorial at the top of the hill in the most prestigious location within the cemetery, at the top of the hill with the aforesaid sea glimpses.

There was a bush area sprinkled with memorial plaques.

Men are capable of great love, for their dogs at least, and Frank loved his Missy.

With a grave holding multiple people my mind drifted to would I ever see as gay couple buried together? Burials are rare now, so it is most unlikely. But look what I came across! Phillipa who died thirty years ago, with mention of her partner Diana.


 Land has been cleared at the back of cemetery, I guess to add more room for plaques. 


Finally, this is where I am staying, in a three storey building, with a weird layout. There is a modern two storey house behind where I was staying on ground level of this three storey building. Somewhere within what all that seems modern, perhaps 1960s chimneys, poke upward.

18 comments:

  1. That looks like a beautiful place to visit, and I do love that iconic Victorian era architecture. It seems to have been a very happy few days break with good food, whiskey and relaxed family time.

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  2. Beautiful cemetery looks so peaceful, I love my own space too feels awkward staying with other people, apparently Japanese Whiskey is really good, it's sold at the place I work at, have a nice weekend.

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  3. That beautiful building reminds me of the bar filmed in baz lurhmans Australia

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  4. A nice getaway Andrew and I loved the tree silhouetted against the seashore. It's easy to see why you stopped. Oh and snooping around cemeteries is also one of my hobbies! Were you looking for a nice spot to rest in for eternity?

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  5. I have never thought of putting vegemite on fruit toast but it makes perfect sense - salty and sweet. I just happen to have a loaf from my local baker in my freezer so guess what I will be trying shortly!!
    Your trip away sounds a perfect blend of alone time and socialising. Great for recharging batteries and reflecting.

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  6. "my mind firmly back in the nineties" you won't make that mistake again. I LOVE the "slam on the brakes" photo and the moonlight on the water too. Graves with multiple infants are usually from some illness or plague; flu, whooping cough or diptheria took so many back then in the times before vaccines.

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  7. Ah, another graveyard fan. Thanks for the tour. And some lovely photos along the way of your visit. Sounds like a grand time!
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  8. Meal for 4 was an ok price including a decent wine, as you stated you all enjoyed it and that is the main thing and having a great time, sounds as if you did.
    I like that photo of those two trees and the buildings are good.
    Graveyards are fascinating places to visit, well I find they are....that looks a good one, nice and tidy.

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  9. What a pleasant interlude you had, with lots of interesting and touching photographs.

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  10. Why are burials rare now? I go to more burial-funerals these days than to weddings, bar mitzvahs and graduations put together. And as soon as one partner dies, the surviving partner buys two plots next to each other.
    I would not want to buried in Melbourne and my beloved in Sydney, for example.

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  11. A lovely glimpse into life in an Australian cemetery. I have never seen a dog mentioned on a gravestone. As the grave yards get filled up here, there is more cremation and ash scattering taking place.

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  12. I don't know why but I love cemeteries; there is such a sense of peace in them.

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  13. Nice to hear about your time away.

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  14. The Grand Hotel Portarlington looks perfect for a Victorian fanatic. We are going to Geelong for a special art event and could easily drive the extra ks for the night.

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  15. The tree looks like a very large bonzai bush one might keep on a desktop, if the smaller version, and tweak with small scissors. The old hotel looksl, to me, like something out of a travel show on South Africa. Eating out here is very very expensive now, even if at fast food.

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  16. It sounds like a nice time away, Andrew. And nice to catch up with family.

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  17. Thank you for sharing your adventure and these awesome photos. I'm glad you enjoyed your trip and even that super expensive meal. Cemeteries are always interesting to me. I often walked the family dog to and through the town's main cemetery and can even picture some of the neatest monuments, especially one carved to look just like a tree stump. It's sad when anyone dies, but I can't imagine losing a baby. Be well!

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