Yes, it was mini. I stayed two nights at Sister's but it felt longer. Ray and I stayed there while Sister and family were away in January, and in nearby Queenscliff at Christmas just gone. This time Sister, Bone Doctor and Jo were in Central Australia, doing what you do there. I thought their wee holiday was for Bone Doctor's grandmother's 100th in Queensland. Keep up Andrew.
It felt a bit strange without Ray there. I cranked up the heating to levels that would be horrific to the homeowners and didn't turn them off until I was leaving. Really, only the living area is heated, but the warmth did flow through a bit to the kitchen at least.
I arrived at about 1pm on Friday. I had coffee and cake for afternoon tea at the local village while I watched some very impressive wave action.
While I've seen it before, it was a while ago, so I drove a couple of minutes to the lighthouse.
I returned to Sister's and ignored the cats who were about to pass out from hunger. They were quite wary of us both in January, but they seemed to remember me as a source of food. Lol, that sounds like they might actually eat me. I'm sure they thought about it. They hung around all late afternoon. I went out to buy a pizza for dinner, which I kept warm in the oven while I had a pre dinner glass or wine...ok, two. They greeted me again upon my return with their starvation antics. Ok, ok, at 6.30 I thought I would feed them their wet food but they had disappeared. I called them outside and Oreo turned up. This is awkward. They eat together from twin bowls. How to feed them separately? I fed him and later when Athena turned up, I fed her in the bathroom with the door closed against Oreo.
At 9pm, I rattled their dry food container and they came and I fed them in the garage and locked them in for the night. No possums or hooded plovers were destroyed by them that night.
I let them out the next morning after I arose and fed them some more dry food.
After mucking around for a a few hours, and eating my own cereal I had brought along, I wanted proper food and so drove to Queenscliff to the fabulous beach food caravan. I think there is a staff of four and none are under 60. Just brilliant. I wasn't that hungry and it was raining, so I bought raisin toast and coffee and sat in the car looking at the sea.
Back to Sister's to face, in their eyes, skin and bone cats for a while. I then set off for Barwon Heads, a very busy seaside town with little parking and much traffic. Sister paid for Mother's and Step Father's accommodation for Mother's 70th birthday, in the cabin used in the tv show SeaChange at Barwon Heads. It is a popular place for good reasons.
A few years ago we stayed at Barwon Heads in a cabin. Ex Sis in Law and her husband were staying in same park in their caravan, along with Hippie Niece and her twin daughters. It was a disaster. The twins had a terrible meltdown. Hippie Niece had a meltdown. Ex Sis in Law looked after the twins and Hippie Niece slept on the floor of our cabin.
We were staying another night and motel accommodation was found for Hippie Niece and her daughters. Only later did I learn Ray paid and he never asked me for half. The motel was on the Barwon River on the Ocean Grove side. I want to revisit the place. I have no real memory of it.
I didn't find it as I suddenly no longer cared but I was on the river bank, and it was most interesting.
Old boat ramp.
Mangroves growing in the waters.
The new pier and boat ramp.
I am just amazed by my phone camera. This pelican was so far away.
When in Barwon Heads, I had thoughts of visiting Nephew and his family, twenty minutes away, but I didn't feel comfortable bothering them with a visit by the old aunty. They are busy with their children and life. I had posted something on FaceBook and the next day Nephew messaged me, saying they would be at the play park in Ocean Grove at about 1pm. Sadly, I was home by then. I think I really should have let them know I was nearby and let them work out a catch up, rather than me trying to control things. Ray! Stop looking over my shoulder.
Back at Sister's, I took an afternoon walk to the beach. The sea had calmed compared to yesterday. How many times did I, Ray, Sister, Bone Doctor, Jo and dog Fuzzy Cocoa walk to the beach together? It will never happen again and I felt the sads. Fuzzy is on her last legs and won't last the year. But overall, while I was glad to come back home, it was a nice break for a couple of days. Sister's bed is very comfortable.
Oreo.
Athena.
High tide at the beach on Saturday, with gentle waves.
It looks like an excellent few days away - despite a few bitter sweet moments.
ReplyDeleteLove the pelican shot.
EC, yes it was good, the only downer really was the cold weather, but it has since become even colder.
DeleteA nice wee sidebar trip for yourself and I'm sure Sister is grateful for the cat care. But sad too with the memories. I find memories overtake me unexpectedly at times like these.
ReplyDeleteLove all the photos, I am particularly enamored of lighthouses.
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WWW, Ray and I enjoyed each others company when travelling or just doing something locally. Yes, those memory hits. They can hit hard.
DeleteIt's tricky revisiting places you were at with a partner, but a good idea all the same.
ReplyDeleteYes, I think so too Boud. If I revisit a second time, it won't be with the strong sad memories.
DeleteThis mini holiday is my kind of holidays every week I go back to Bendigo. It can be quite isolating, but I go to take photos whenever I feel like it. I do my meditation every morning. I always eat cheap when I can rather than cooking myself. Geelong coastal area is quite nice to look at.
ReplyDeleteRoentare, I keep hearing about meditation from very sensible people. I am thinking I should try it. Yes about the Geelong area, especially at Point Lonsdale right on The Rip.
DeleteThe Russians were coming in 1917?? I think they were a bit busy with WW1, the Revolution and dealing with their own royal family to be looking up maps to find where Australia was.
ReplyDeleteHels, I've not understood why Australia felt as threat from Russia.
DeleteLOVE the videos, thank you. that's a very pretty lighthouse. The "electro-dangerous" machine is a record player/recording machine with all the necessary buttons dials etc to adjust volumes and tones, while you record cassette tapes from the record playing in the top section. Handy for making a specific tape mix for a dance performance perhaps.
ReplyDeleteThanks River. The record player etc is a classic. I didn't know they had it. Ah, the memories.
DeleteLots of good memories for you there as well as the sadness of being on your own. I admire you for getting out and about so much. I could just watch the sea for hours although I expect it was too cold for just sea watching.
ReplyDeleteFun60, it was quite cold there, and Australians never dress well for cold weather. I love watching waves, normally on rocks but it was fun to see it crashing on a path.
DeleteYou packed a lot into a short time.
ReplyDeleteCats are very good actors, so convincing. Oreo and Athena are very pretty.
JB, I'd kind of forgotten the intelligence of cats, and how they understand how to manipulate humans. They are nice cats but neither is a lap cat.
DeleteEnjoyed the videos, the sea was a bit rough.
ReplyDeleteSeems you had a good break.
Margaret, when you used to travel on the ferry, you probably didn't notice all the work that goes into getting ships through the rip. Yes, I enjoyed the change for a couple of days.
DeleteA lovely break and and another memory hurdle tackled.
ReplyDeleteYou need to come and do a comparison of Queenscliff and Lakes!
Merlot, I do indeed need to do that. But I am terrified at meeting you.
DeleteWhat a lovely long picture blog, catches the weather and the landscape beautifully. Must admit I am not keen on cats, have a noisy 19 year old cat who loves howling in the night.
ReplyDeleteOh yes Thelma, howling cats. That's a horrible noise. Thanks for your nice words.
DeleteIt was certainly good for you to change a bit your wallpaper (that's a French expression, when you need to go away and see other places) Of course the first time it's hard to go alone to places where you went both of you together ! I hope you were a good catsitter !
ReplyDeleteGattina, it was bit hard to go alone. I wanted to tell Ray things. Now I just tell things to the internet.
DeleteIt's good that you got a break away. Thanks for sharing the photos. There is something so fascinating about lighthouses.
ReplyDeleteAlison in Wales x
Alison, I too like lighthouses. Most people do but I've never thought it trough as why people do.
DeleteThey have a hard to showing it, but the cats love us.
ReplyDeleteTP, love us for what we can give them.
DeleteI would keep an eye on those seas too with the tide coming in. So you are the cat feeder. It's a good title. My judgement may be skewed. Three bikes each--my goodness.
ReplyDeleteStayer, their money. Their business. They probably disapprove of what I spend money on.
DeleteLovely photos and it lets me have a chance to see a country I'll probably never make it to now. I'm glad you had a break. I always find it odd that you're having winter when we're baking here.
ReplyDeletePixie, it is a bit of turning point in your senior years when you start to count what you won't do rather than what you will do. I complain about the cold, but really, I don't want to be baking.
DeleteSome very witty captions there. This break has been good for you.
ReplyDeleteThanks Kirk. I expect it was good for me.
DeleteIt was good for yo to get away from your condo for a bit and be somewhere with old memories and now some new ones.
ReplyDeleteCats are such different creatures than dogs.
Pat, they certainly are so different, yet they can happily get along. Note to us.
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