Wednesday, May 6, 2026

Catch Up

My neighbour HH's foot is healing much slower than she expected. She never asks until I offer, which I do almost daily, if she wants anything at the shops, as she can't drive and can't really walk, only hobble around. Last Thursday she asked for a loaf of Abbott's wholemeal bread when I went out shopping.

Yesterday she asked if I could get her a prescription medication, plus painkillers. 

Late that afternoon Phyllis cooked her a meal of spicy air fried chicken, a dressed salad and a fried egg, and served it to her hot at her dining table. She said it was the first proper sit down meal she'd had for two weeks.


Gratuitous photo of Jass as she waited for an answer to her question, did we think she is pretty.


Andrew, said Sister's wife, while I know you don't wear tee shirts, I couldn't resist buying this for you. Bone Doctor was right about me wearing tee shirts but I do like this one featuring different Melbourne tram models. Kosov wears it well. I've told him he must hand wash it.


Saturday morning I met up with my Sydney friend Victor for brunch before he went to see a local performance. He was only in Melbourne for the day, and jetted home later that day. 

Once home, we three went off to the big green shed to buy cat grass, grass for cats to eat. It was absurdly expensive for a tray of a bit of grass, but we bought a tray. So far, Jass has shown interest but not eaten any.  

Saturday night we three met up with a couple of my friends, the Fijian Indian heritage guy and his Hong Kong born partner at a Pakistani restaurant in St Kilda. It was very popular with South Asian community and locals. It was quite good, and I wanted to take the very handsome waiter home with me. Noooo, Ondrrrrewww. You cannot, I was told. This catch up was to celebrate Phyllis' 23rd birthday. 

Come the day, Sunday, gifts were unwrapped, one wrapped by about 20 metres of cling wrap, and gifts spread all over the place.


I had said ok to visitors Sunday afternoon to help Phyllis celebrate his birthday. I think five people came. I left them alone, taking with me half a meals on wheels sandwich, a strange Asian small cake and a couple of chocolates. At Albert Park Beach I sat on the bench where Ray and I so often sat during Covid lockdown and consumed my food with a takeaway coffee.

Sitting on my own on a bench, eating and and drinking my coffee as I stared out to sea and a stormy sky, just as old people do.

I went on to Port Melbourne shops to buy something, then to the Mazda car dealer to look at a a new car, but it was closed. I did walk around looking at cars. I found my way to Westgate Park to look at the salt water lake and lean back my car seat to untenion my body. 

I returned home while the afternoon party was in full swing with all guests sitting at the dining table consuming a feast. I went to my bedroom to play on my tablet while fun went on until I was called out for the birthday cake. Last year Phyllis bought Kosov a sword online. So much for our strict weapons laws. 

The cake was cut with the sword, but later divided by a proper knife, and at my suggestion, served by a cake slide, on side plates, with a dessert forks and serviettes.  


42 comments:

  1. Such a big knife could cut a far bigger cake. Just a suggestion.

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    1. It turned out to be the perfect size Debby. Kosov doesn't eat cake, so it was divided into six, and it was quite rich.

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  2. Are those the new girlie pants being worn there?

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  3. Sitting on a bench with that view sounds like heaven. lol Thank you for sharing the fun photos and stories. I'm sorry about HH; poor dear. Be well!

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  4. Good on you guys for taking care of your neighbor. Jass is gorgeous and that t shirt is purrfect! :)

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    1. Sandra, I am sure Jass knows she is and trades on it.

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  5. Jass is beautiful, Andrew! The meal looks delicious.

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    1. Linda, I had the same meal the night before and it was very nice.

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  6. You never wear t-shirts? Ever? How very Un-Australian of you. I wear t-shirts every day, some are nicer than others and would probably more correctly be called "tops" but mostly it's the proper t-shirts for comfort and easy wash'n'wear since I never iron them.
    The stormy sky is a lovely photo. Phyllis looks happy with the girlie pants. Happy Birthday to him.

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    1. Only black Bonds crew neck under my shirts in cooler weather, like from now until October. While I don't iron, I hang my shirts up properly to dry in the spare room. Most are ok without ironing. They are both generally very happy guys, which makes me happy.

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  7. Your Sydney friend must have plenty of money if he flew to Melbourne just for brunch and to see a local performance. Most people only have one or two holidays a year so they spread the cost of the return plane ticket over as many days as possible. Especially now.. I am assuming plane trips are more expensive than they used to be.
    When my in laws, who lived in Sydney, were alive and well, I always hoped they would send us plane tickets to Sydney.. but it never happened :(

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    1. Hels, I suppose you could say he is very comfortable. If your in laws were still around, I would remonstrate with them for their lack of kindness.

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  8. You are good neighbors to feed your neighbor who at the moment is homebound and can only hobble. Lots of celebration and gatherings in your home. Happy May.

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    1. Terra, while I've known her for twenty years, since my Ray died, she has become a friend. For the age of 80, she is amazing but as she has discovered, it doesn't take much to happen to need help.

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  9. You can see the trams better when someone else wears the tee.
    That way you both win

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    1. Kylie, and they would be somewhat distorted if I wore the tee.

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  10. The house next door is empty now and up for rent. I'll take you and the boys and Jazz anytime as neighbors.

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    1. Strayer, if you can look after Jass when we head off to Portland to party.

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  11. Happy Birthday to Phyllis. Love the T shirt nice looking fellow in it too.
    Hope HH gets better with that foot very soon, must be a pain for her.
    You have been a bit busy and nice to catch up with friends, Andrew.

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    1. Margaret, maintaining social connections when you are older, and I try. Thank you.

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  12. Never seen the two boys before, they look sweet. Belated birthday wishes to Phyllis. Also tell Jass she is a pretty cat but not to get beyond her station in life.

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    1. Thelma, I have put photos up of them in the past but only leave them up for 24 hours, so they will soon disappear. Jass imagines she is royalty, and gets miffed when she discovers she must do what she told.

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  13. You are great neighbours to take food for one laid up. You are generous letting the boys party in your apartment. Lovely scene sitting watching the sea.

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    1. I am very generous to the boys, Diane, but it works both ways. They are kind to me.

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  14. Two great facial expressions in today's post. Can't decide which I like more, the cat or the human's.

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    1. Kirk, I like the human happiness faces.

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  15. I like very much the way you are all taking care of your neighbor. Particularly a hot very good meal. That's such good neighboring. When you mentioned the sword I wondered if he'd cut the cake with it, and he did, very ceremonial!

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    1. Boud, she would do the same for me if the situation was reversed. There are a number of other neighbours who would help too.

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  16. The look on Jass's face proves she already knows the answer to her question.

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  17. Happy birthday to Phyllis - what a good-looking young man. I hope HH continues to improve - she's lucky to have kind neighbours. As for Jass - of course she's beautiful!

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    1. Thanks JB. The recovery will be longer than she initially understood. It seems communication was lacking.

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  18. A sword?! Good grief! It's nice to see some good pictures of Kosov and I like your shot of the waterfront with the storm coming. The little kid's scooter makes the picture.

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    1. Steve, I am not particularly happy having such a weapon in my home but I know I can trust them with it. It sits in a scabbard and is rarely taken out. I think it is a Lime scooter. I like the bright green against the dark colours.

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  19. How lucky for the lads to have found you, Andrew. They seem to be good people. Lucky for HH too.

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  20. How kind of Phyllis to make that tasty meal for HH. Your adopted sons have enriched your life in a period of your life when you could have lived a very downhearted "if only" kind of existence - pining for Ray and the life you once had. They have put fuel in your life and sparkle. By the way, I like the T-shirt. It was a very thoughtful gift. You should wear it next time you venture out for a ride on a tram.

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    1. YP, while it wasn't evident initially, they both have a good work ethic too, and they don't expect things for nothing.

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