Wednesday, November 19, 2025

Personal catch up

Just a bit of personal stuff. I employed a window cleaner last Tuesday, to clean the lounge room and balcony glass. Superficially, his work seemed ok, but after he left, I noticed he hadn't cleaned down the outside window sills, and the next morning with the sun on the balcony glass, the window cleaning was obviously very poor.

 I explained to him that the window tinting was old and ready to decay if not treated very gently, and so to be careful. He managed to damage the window tinting. This could have well happened if I cleaned the windows, so I am not so annoyed about that, but the basics of window cleaning should have been brilliant, and it wasn't. Window tinting now costs a fortune, but I guess I will get it done. Three windows in my apartment have already been redone. 

I'm trying to live up to Ray's mantra, shrouds don't have pockets. I've spent a lot of money since Ray died and the inheritance came through from my mother and then Ray, mostly on home improvements, and I will continue to do so. I have no one to leave money to. My siblings are fine for money. Phyllis and Kosov may get some money from me, but hey are already treated generously. 

Last Friday was my neighbour HH's 80th birthday. She said she would be away and had made a plan to catch the train to Adelaide, a city she knows reasonably well, but then decided she would stay home. In conspiracy with her son, I helped him on the day to have delivered to her a bottle of Baileys, and later flowers. Her daughter surprised her by taking her to a show about Don Lane, presented by his son P. J. Lane. After the show, she got to chat to John Michael Howson and newsreader Peter Hitchener, I think. Victorians of a certain age will remember these people. 

Thinking she may be away on the day of her birthday, two days earlier the three of us trooped downstairs to give her the gift I had bought. She showed Phyllis and Kosov around her apartment and we chatted for a bit. I gave her a notebook with the cover of local silo art, as she had taken a silo tour earlier this year, and knowing she drinks peppermint tea and lemon and ginger tea, I bought her an advent calendar that has a different tea bag for each of the 24 days. She adored it and the photo doesn't do the interior of the box justice. She said she would mount the box on her wall after she finished the teas. 

I had lunch with HH yesterday and caught up on her news. She is very social and outgoing. We walked to the lunch venue and on the way back she chatted to a postman, who I can't remember but he used to deliver to our building. They each asked other about respective families, and one day when all her dividend letters arrived and nearly filled her letter box, he called her on the intercom to tell her. There is much kindness in the building where I live, and I know people who I can trust. HH is going to feed Jass while we are away at the end of the month. 

Anyway, here are some pics of the T2 gift. It is quite large.



39 comments:

  1. The Cabinet of Curiosity is beautiful. Sorry to hear about the window cleaning 😢

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    1. Linda, it is odd that it is so difficult to get windows cleaned. A first world problem in the first world.

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  2. That's a lovely gift. Very thoughtful.

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    1. JayCee, I was so relieved to come up with what to buy her, knowing that she would like it.

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  3. No wonder your neighbour enjoyed the silo art tour. It is amazing!

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  4. That's a lovely gift. As mum got older I only bought her things that could be used up, tea, fruit cake, expensive jams and honey. Nice things that she wouldn't buy herself.

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    1. Pixie, they are all good gifts for older people.

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  5. There's nothing like good neighbors, such as you. Hugs, my dear.

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  6. Yes, consumable presents are the best. Especially the advent one which lasts over many days.

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    1. Boud, she was so chuffed with the calendar. And I was very pleased she was.

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  7. John Michael Howson is still around? I used to see him on TV. The Tea advent is a great idea. Good idea to get the window retinting done before the summer really hits.

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    1. River, he is very old and frail, but still writing for the theatre. Maybe the very last skill you lose before you die is the ability to write.

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    1. Kirk, the artwork really grabbed me, from a distance and close up.

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  9. Regarding the window cleaning, such things do happen here as well. Sometimes it just boils down to our luck, whether something gets done properly or not! ... That was a indeed a nice gift from T2.

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    1. Pradep, the difference being that I am sure your window cleaning costs a lot less, relatively.

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  10. What a really sweet idea the tea bag advent calendar was! Previously, you seemed like a mean, hard-nosed son of a bitch so now my estimation of your character is much improved.

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    1. C'mon YP. You never thought that. You know me quite well now.

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    2. Okay. I admit that I was joking. Everybody knows that you are a paragon of virtue. Some call you The Victorian Jesus.

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  11. I'm pleased your neighbours like her gifts, she certainly sounds like a lovely lady. Gosh the windows, oh dear me not good.
    We have tinted windows but they were already done in the factory if you know what I mean and double glazed.

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    1. I wish my windows had been factory tinted. I think I am the only person in the building with tinted windows, and we had to seek the permission of the body corporate, but no one would have noticed anyway. Mine aren't double glazed, but are very thick glass to cut the noise.

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  12. That is an original and very thoughtful gift.

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    1. Thanks JB. Aren't I just so good! I am not, but I try.

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  13. A lovely gift and to have that many teas to look forward to. Brilliant choice.
    XO
    WWW

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    1. WWW, I thought she would like it, not be absolutely delighted with it.

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  14. Love the Tea Advent Calender, and Baileys, yum, excellent gift giving.
    Alison in Devon x

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  15. I do not recall hearing you talk about your building before, but I love the vision of a little community, all coming together to celebrate a milestone birthday. How long have you lived there?

    And yes, you are an excellent gift chooser! The Curiosity Cabinet is marvelous!

    Alas. I clean my own windows.

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    1. Debby, I used to do so more in the past, especially in the noughties when I was a member of the body corporate committee.

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  16. Live well, we can't take it with us.

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  17. The tea calendar sounds like a perfect gift for our neighbour, Andrew.

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    1. Pat, I wonder if T2 is world wide company. Here you go, "T2, officially registered as Tea Too, is a chain of specialty tea shops with stores in Australia, Singapore, and New Zealand. It was established in Melbourne, Australia in 1996, and was purchased by Unilever in 2013.[2] It had 40 stores worldwide and reported an annual turnover of A$57 million".

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  18. What a lovely gift! And Ray was a wise man; I can only imagine how much he is missed by all who knew him. I'm sorry about the window issues but so glad you have good neighbors. Hugs, my dear.

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    1. He is very much missed by all, Darla. Thank you.

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