Friday, September 5, 2025

The week that is was

Monday was the usual hanging around for my meals on wheels delivery. Each three course meal costs $11, but I never sit down to a three course meal. I can choose three main meals, three sandwiches or soups and three deserts. Of sandwiches, I choose two, and one soup, potato, leek and bacon. Of deserts I normally choose two fresh fruit, which gives me four days of fruit for my cereal, and one naughty and very sweet bread and butter pudding. 

Before my meals arrive, I cross the road to sit and have coffee. That was after I had gone down a paper rabbit hole after my Dead in Bed neighbour HH asked me question about my council rates. I didn't go out until late, just to Prahran for something I can't remember.

Tuesday I was back in Prahran, to see my doctor. I requested new scripts for medications, asked him to look at my hernia surgery scar and his opinion, he reassured me that my recent MRI indicated no further action needed to be taken about a suspicious mass within my pancreas, prescribed an ointment for some dermatitis looking spots on my ankle. The ointment is Kenacomb, one I'd never heard of. 

Some time after four, a man came to check before quoting to supply and install a new air conditioner. His tan tradie boots had a velcro siding to remove them easily. He began to take one off when I said, no need. Just as I was letting him out the door, Phyllis and Kosov arrived home. 

Ondrewwww, your special friend has just left. 

Don't be silly. 

Ondrewwww, why are you blushing? We don't judge you. 

I'm not, and why do you think I would be interested in an older man like him?

Ondrewwww, your breath smells of something! 

Can you both just piss orf. 

When our car used to need servicing, Ray would book it in for 8.00am. I once asked him why so early? He replied, so that it is finished early. I found that 8.00am car delivery very unsettling. I booked my car in for its annual service at 10.30. It would be ready by 4pm. I changed the name of the business's account to my my name. I had to catch a tram to the city and then one from the city to get home, and reverse to pick it up. There were complications because I changed the day from Friday to Wednesday, but not a big problem. I then said, damn it, I will pick the car up tomorrow morning. 

Back in the city, I bought some new socks at Big Trouble You (Big W) at QV and some milk. I was struggling with walking by then. I don't walk well in the mornings. I stayed home for the rest of the day and paid out a horrendous amount of money, $2,200 for the quarterly body corporate fee, $1,200 plus for council rates, $370 for my October train trip, and about the same for my October air flight. 

I don't know why, but who handles my Centrelink dealings with our social security government department, wanted all my bank statements back to when I began receiving my government pension, that took me about forty minutes to do online. My government pension has dropped from about $860 a fortnight to $300. The maximum government old age pension here is about $1,200 a fortnight, a bit higher if you are a home renter rather than a homeowner. If I inform Centrelink of all my expenditure this week and my bank account balance, adding about $700 for the car service, I should see my pension rise for a time.

It may rise further, because after collecting my car this Thursday, I drove it to do my weekly shopping. I was home before noon. The early bird does catch the worm, but generally I have little desire for worms. I went back to the city for a haircut. Phyllis rearranged my delivered corned beef with mustard sauce and salad to something a bit more palatable. Some of the meals I receive are great, some are not, and the corned beef was very tough.

On the way home from town, the quote came in for new air con, $3,500 or a better unit, $3,700. I will take the latter as it has a feature of self mould cleaning. My old unit does have a little visible mould inside. So, that will be installed in a week or so. 

Phyllis gets it when I said we are going pussy hunting on Friday, Kosov, hates it. No Ondrewww, don't say that. 

I can't decide if we will tram and train it to the Lost Dogs Home to find a homeless cat to adopt, or Phyllis should drive us in the newly serviced Pearl. We may choose a cat tomorrow, but we won't bring it home until next week, when we have all that is necessary things to home a cat.

Cat problem is; my age nearly 68. A cat may live for twenty years. I will be 88. I think it is unlikely I will live to that age That's ameliorated somewhat by we won't be buying a kitten but an adult cat. What if Phyllis and Kosov can't stay in Australia? It will then be my cat. What if I die? Well, Sister or Oldest Niece would take it on. 

Kosov told me of when his family got a cat when he was young, and it was quickly established that his sister wae allergic to cats, and within one day, it was decided the cat had to go. He cried for three days afterwards. He told me he doesn't want any more heartbreak like that. I understand. In the 80s Ray and I took on a dog from the Lost Dog's Home, and she was totally unsuitable for us, and we made the hard decision to return her to the home. She was a lovely dog, but not right for us and our existing dog and cats. I had tears in my eyes as I took Tess back, and the staff understood. 

Something is kicking off at 'The 'Gog' tonight. Barriers have been erected, all leaking water. When I first saw these barriers in Melbourne, perhaps in the 1990s, they were called New Jersey Barriers. Does Boud know why?  They are no longer called that. 

23 comments:

  1. I wondered how corned beef could be tough, then I remembered that yours is very different to what we call corned beef here.
    A cat? Oh dear. I'll have to rethink my surprise visit to your high rise residence now.

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    1. The corned beef being different is curious, JayCee. I need to find out.

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  2. Maybe get a budgie like what I did for mum.

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    1. We did that for grandmother in the 1970s after my grandfather died. She loved the budgie.

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  3. I think that the water filled lane barriers are a variation on the "K rail" which I have also heard referred to in the vernacular as a "Jersey Curb." I think that concrete K rails will "bounce" cars that drift back into their own lane and prevent them from running into oncoming traffic on divided highways. They seem to have been adopted as control barriers for construction zones and roadway shutdowns for events. I assume that the water filled units are more portable once drained and when empty can be relocated by hand rather than requiring a fork lift. I think the reference to New Jersey is that, like many of the "bridge and tunnel" people from New Jersey, they are brash, loud, and unfamiliar with subtlety and nuance.

    Will Jay

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  4. When I was 76 we brought a new pup into o to our family …one of the biggest joys we have. You don’ have to walk a cat, you only have to love it . My son has 2 who live in an apartment with him and his daughter. You can leave them for a few days if you have an app monitor , an automatic feeder and an automatic toilet tray .
    Most of our new migrants come from India now, clever industrious people unlike some of us generational migrants.

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  5. I'm not familiar with those barriers. They might be useful to deny admission to rude New Yorkers though.

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  6. We moved to a place that wouldn't accept pets when I was a kid and a beloved dog was given away as a result. It left reluctant to get another dog way into adulthood, though I eventually did.

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  7. Oh my. Take your time selecting your new friend. Can't wait to see pictures.

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  8. Be very careful when choosing a cat, hold her and stroke her for a bit and see if she readily sheds hair, you don't want to be cleaning cat hair off EVERYTHING for the next 10 or so years, depending on how long she lives. I've never had a cat that shed as much as Lola does and I'm finding it quite enraging at times, to the point where I've given up cleaning on a daily basis. There's just no point. But don't let this put you off, there may be the perfect cat just waiting for you to choose her. Or him.

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  9. Have you thought about a large bowl with very quiet goldfish?

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    1. Been there, done that, River. Fish don't last.

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  10. I am soooo excited you are getting a cat. Get two! They keep one another company when you are away, stay healthier and entertain one another. Or three.....Just Kidding. Meals on wheels here cost maybe $2 per meal, and they're absolutely awful. The bird lady, a friend I had, tried to give them away finally. I could not stomach them and neither could her neighbors. They're mushy and made to microwave and get even mushier and more awful. Mostly vegetables from a can. Then a processed fish cake or something. Not worth anything. Hope yours are at least a little better than the ones here and a lot more nutritious.

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    1. Strayer, she won't be alone very much. Ours cost a good bit more than that, but they are nutritious and mostly tasty, sometime a little bland. Mine come labelled 'No mush'. I must have mentioned that when signing up.

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  11. Lovely to have a cat in the house, we don't have a dog or cat due to our age. I'm sure the cat could be returned or family would look after it if the cat outlives you - not a nice subject really - age -..
    Gosh we can soon spend $5,000...have fun.

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  12. I look forward to reports of your visit to the dogs/cats' home. Heartbreaking places.

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  13. Looking forward to stories about the cat, Andrew. ;-)

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  14. From our family's experience, cats usually live until the age of 16, when you will be aged 84. At the age of 68, you are an absolute stripling, young enough for a new "special friend"! Roderick

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  15. I lived in New Jersey for a couple of years but I'm afraid I can't help you on the "New Jersey barriers." It's a mystery to me too!

    Good luck on the search for a new feline friend. My only advice is don't get one too young. I adopted a young kitten in the mid 2000s and she was so crazy she nearly drove me (and my older cat) mad. After a few weeks I returned her to her original owners, who had asked for her back! So it all worked out well.

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  16. I have a 22 year old cat. She woke me three times in the night for food, we are wondering whether she has dementia or not. Go for an older cat, kittens are pretty but destructive as they grow up.

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  17. Pussy hunting! I like it.
    I hope you find the perfect little companion

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